When people think about heaven and hell, quite often I think they're less concerned about themselves than about their loved ones. But what's the best way we can ensure those who are living to end up right with God? It's by making sure we are personally right ourselves.
Here's the question: if I don't bother for myself, will it make my children more or less likely to take him seriously? The kindest thing we can do for other people is work on ourselves - make sure we are living all out for Christ.